The thing to help people who are being bullied is that they need someone who loves them and would stick up for them. I would know what it feels like because i had a friend who was bullied for 4 years and her name is Amy Herbert, She is currently living her life with a life long condition called ADHD which stands for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. ADHD can affect children and teens and can also continue into adulthood. ADHD is the most commonly diagnosed mental disorder of children.
People who suffer from the condition may be hyperactive and unable control their impulses. They may have trouble with paying attention. So if your friend gets diagnosed with ADHD don’t get angry if they don’t pay attention its something that they can’t control. i also have a cousin that also has ADHD but i will leave that there for now. 19.8% of the population suffer from the condition of ADHD.
This is Amy Herbert
Some of the population can also suffer from Asperger syndrome means that “a developmental disorder related to autism and characterised by awkwardness in social interaction, pedantry in speech, and preoccupation with very narrow interests.” People with autism can be very short tempered I would know this because my brother ( Matthew ) suffers from Asperger syndrome and he can sometimes have very little interest when it comes to doing something that you want to do but you can’t because it sometimes has to be something he would want to do instead.My brother also sometimes has out burst which means that he could shout at you for no reason when he doesn’t mean to. I would talk to him and he would still be really tense after he was angry and I would get shouted at.
To stop bullies is that you block them on every social media that you may have them on, tell a responsible adult so that they can help you in the situation with the bully. If you haven’t blocked the bullies yet than report them with the CEOP button which would automatically get them to leave you alone on social media. But bullying is hard to obtain when it comes to being in school and that you haven’t told anyone yet . I think enough with bullying i think that you should stand up to them and have your say when you are the ones being bullied. i believe that the victims should tell the bullies what it is like to be bullied everyday of their lives for everything that they do, they have the right to know how you feel so that they know. but most bullies are inconsiderable when it comes to others feelings and what their actions actually do to others. All the things they do are hurtful and all the things they say are hurting physically. The things that say can also hurt physically and mentally because they believe everything meaning that they would be gullible. They think that everything is true when it isn’t and they should be mindful that, they say things to be hurtful and not to be friends with you. It works every time because our first immediate reaction is to react to what they have said.
The bullies only bully people because they have nothing better to do with their lives. i think that it is sad that people go out of their way to bully innocent people for no reason. people shouldn’t be scared to come to school they should feel safe and that they can be happy around everyone that there wouldn’t be a problem, that the bullies don’t need to act out just to try and ruin someone’s reputation at school.
Everyday there is a big impact on those who are bullied.
when people are being bullied the person that is bullying them can make them feel small and insecure. i would know this due to the fact that i have had friends that have been bullied. They have told me their stories about what happened which lead them on to doing things that they regret doing in the first place.which leads me on to say all those people that have been bullied will know what i’m saying how can a bully sit behind a screen torturing people making themselves appearing bigger than the other person while they feel small.
bullying someone isn’t trying to make yourself look better than others so why should innocent people be bullied for anything and everything that they do, it just doesn’t seem right for people to go out of their way to do this. now a message to the bullies what is the point on picking on someone to try and make yourself look bigger against the other person, why have you got to bully them for no reason? why do you have got to sit there behind a screen and say nasty things to them? why do you do this to so many people?
have you ever thought about the causes because i guess you haven’t because so many people around the world have done things to their bodies, for example people self-harm because it is their way of coping with things when they feel distress like being bullied by people like you who are immature. but in fact, its ruining those peoples bodies because they have gone out of their way to do it because they can’t cope with all your nasty comments and thoughts that you have given them. they have the right to feel distressed, feel worthless and feel that they don’t belong in society because of YOU! you’re the main reason that 3.2 million have been a victim of bullying, but 160,000 teenagers skip school everyday because they are being bullied
In America there is 17% of students who have reported being bullied 2 to 3 times a month or more within a school semester. so now you know why i am so strong about bullying because this is now a big problem for those 160,00 teenagers to not come to school because of people bullying them. they would miss out on a lot of their education which means they win’t get a good degree that they wanted to get into certain colleges and that they would fail their GCSEs due to not coming into school. I think that every child has the right to learn and get a good education without all those bullies that are trying to stop them from achieving well in their lives. i also believe that all bullies need to grow up because they are acting so immature that they feel the need to bully others into doing things and making them do things that they don’t always agree to do, so they threaten them into doing it that they are so scared that they will do it.
One core belief that i believe that all bullies should put themselves into the other persons shoes and see what it feels like to be bullied everyday of your life, feel like that you can’t achieve well and that you don’t come to school because your so scared that you don’t know what else other people may say about you. You feel insecure that you feel as if you can’t come out of your house for a second without feeling insecure about yourself. i bet your sitting there reading this and thinking well it can’t be that bad i’m not doing anything well you are and that’s why most teenagers don’t come into school because they are frighten because they don’t know what you are going to do next.
so, to all the bullies just stop bullying innocent people when they haven’t done anything wrong your just picking on them when you don’t need to. i also think that you need to put yourself in their shoes because you would feel the same things as they feel because if you know how they feel then you should’t be a bully and bully people for no reason to bully. Just imagine all those teenagers that are bullied decide to come in because they are not being bullied anymore. This means that those teenagers school attendance percentages will be higher because they have decided to come in to learn and get an education so that they can get a good degree for their GCSEs and that they can get into the colleges that they want to get in, they can also do the jobs that they wanted to do and not have to worry about failing their GSCEs.
They would get a good lifestyle so that they can do things that they love and care about and there won’t be any fear of doing something that they won’t enjoy and hate because they have failed their GCSEs. I hope that everyone who is reading this and you have or being bullied listen up when the bully says something nasty to you just come back at them with compliments so that you appear not affected by what they are saying that the bullies know that you can’t hurt you with mean comments and you don’t have to worry about them because they will appear small and you would be the bigger person.
So, to all the bullies good luck because whatever you say we will always have a compliment in mind and you can’t hurt us with your mean comments because there is always something that we can say we aren’t affected by whatever you say. Also grow up you need to become more mature because you obviously need to grow up if you are choosing to be a bully because you can’t just sit behind that screen and say all these things when you can’t say it face to face. i suppose that you are scared because you wouldn’t just sit behind, the screen say verbal abuses. but bullying just doesn’t hurt verbally, it also hurts mentally and physically.
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